Have you chased a guy so much that it seems as if he’s no longer interested in you? This isn’t an impossible situation: you can get his interest back. Just follow these steps, and you are sure to find a way to turn his attention around.

Disconnect

Avoid sending him text messages, instant messages, and voice mail. This will make him start to think about what happened to you. He’ll wonder why you aren’t chasing him. Note that to pull this off successfully, one must have discipline and self-control.

Play hard to get

Playing hard to get really works when you need to get a guy’s interest back. This is because men like the thrill of the chase, and will pursue women who don’t show much interest after paying attention to her for some time.

Be still, thy heart

You may want to change your attitude after chasing a man too much. Don’t show him your true feelings. Always remain composed, even when he’s only a few feet away from you. Try not to show him that you’re aware of his presence, and that it’s affecting you in any way.

Get a makeover

Wear flirtatious clothes that can catch his eye. Buy new clothes, get a really nice haircut, and put on some new make-up. A change in appearance can insinuate that you’ve changed. You want to pique his curiosity. What exactly changed about you? The more you make him wonder, the more attention he’ll give you – which is what you’re after

Be Unavailable

Don’t answer his calls. This will make it look as if you have lost interest in him. The point is to make him wonder what exactly happened to change the way things were. Eventually, he’d want to know what happened to the woman who used to chase him, and start paying more attention to you.

Look confident

Make him believe that even if you have chased him a great deal, you are still the confident woman that you are. This might seem a bit difficult, since you did chase him around for a time, but a woman who is confident is a pedestal of assured positive energy that can rekindle his curiosity.

Respect yourself

Even if you were the one who did all the chasing, you still need to respect yourself! If you can’t get his interest back, work on trying to get over it – and move on. There are better things for you, and the sooner you get a hold of yourself, the sooner you’ll start acting more confident – and we’ve established that confidence is pretty attractive for men.

Who knows, it might even get his interest back!